I have recently gotten back in the pool (after a year đ ) thanks to our friend, Dawn, taking great care of Wil after school and honing in on his life skills learning. While I swam Monday, Dawnâs husband came over to have a guitar jam session with Wil đ¸ When you have a dependent child, … Continue reading Independence Takes a Village with Dependent Children
Wil is graduating; this is a hard one. Raising Wil Iâve gone through what I think of as â3 acceptancesâ so far: Acceptance of Ds Acceptance of new behaviors of puberty. (That was a tough one!! That truly took a village!) Acceptance of transitioning out of high school. Wil is ready to graduate, though; heâs … Continue reading
The Amazing is in The Choice
There is no magic formula to acceptance of our friends with disabilities. Acceptance, in its essence, is very simple. You donât need to be a special person. You donât need to be born kind or compassionate or patient.You donât need to be energetic or inspirational. You donât need to be anything other than willing to … Continue reading The Amazing is in The Choice
Something New
Wil and I were at the orthodontistâs office. He has a top set of braces; this appointment was about a bottom set to correct his underbite. âAs many kids with Down syndrome have a smaller upper jaw, the underbite is common,â the orthodontist said. The commonality of an underbite in people with Down syndrome, I … Continue reading Something New
Another Gear
I pulled up in the driveway at 7:45AM after coaching. Just as I was about to exit my car to go inside our home and check on Wilâs readiness for school, he ran outside and into the car! He was fully dressed, complete with his hoodie, backpack and even socks (which sometimes prove challenging for … Continue reading Another Gear
Heavy and Light
Wil loves riding his recumbent bike around our property. The challenge is I canât fully trust he wonât go out to the road. And itâs a busy road. I was talking to fellow mother yesterday. Her 16-year-old son, who also has Ds, is in summer speech and occupational therapy with Wil. As much as her … Continue reading Heavy and Light
Its Not Real…Until It Is
I would say this situation is hardest on Wil. He doesnât understand as much as Iâve explained it. Iâve heard the response, âI donât understand, either,â which I respect and appreciate. But Wil doesnât understand what a virus is. We do know what a virus is, even not knowing all the details of this particular … Continue reading Its Not Real…Until It Is
