The Bright Side

Elizabeth sent me this picture of her and her sorority sister, Isabelle. They were visiting a cider mill and enjoying the day with their sisters.

I love to see her big heart and smile, and loving life on her own. She has more than earned this time. She and her twin sister, Katherine, are great big sisters to Wil. Having a brother with a disability has impacted them. How couldn’t it?

Elizabeth is a sophomore in college studying to be a Physician’s Assistant. Since her senior year of high school, she’s worked as a Certified Nurse Assistant. She’s currently working at the local hospital as a CNA with a full rigorous academic load. As a CNA, she’s worked in many challenging situations, but no matter how challenging she treats each person with dignity. Every story she shared with me shows concern about the person underneath the challenging behavior.

Growing up with Wil, which requires patience and many times schedules built around his timing, plays a big part in this. Yes many times his needs come first. I think many believe this is a burden for siblings. But there is a flip side, there always is. And that flip side is growing a deep compassion within yourself for how others think, feel and operate. This understanding for others is grown strong by living it every day.

I love to see Lizzie in pics like this enjoying time and living life for herself. She deserves time that is all about her and all about her dreams. And with that, she also always carries with her the knowledge and compassion of what it means to care about another. There is always a flip side 😊