Discovering New Stars

When Wil was a baby, I declared Wil would get his high school diploma. Wil would have full inclusion in the classrom. Wil would drive. Wil would go to college. Today, I still have high hopes but they look a lot different from those early declarations. Wil is not going to get a high schoolContinue reading “Discovering New Stars”

Finding yourself in the present moment: When you can’t press time on a child with Down syndrome

I meditate. 10 minutes a day. With Headspace. I get to choose when and where I meditate. My chosen 10 minutes of living in the present. It is bliss. It is zen. It is being. It is da bomb.  But being put in the present moment when it’s not my chosen 10 minutes? Is thereContinue reading “Finding yourself in the present moment: When you can’t press time on a child with Down syndrome”

Living a Purposeful Life: Our Friends with Special Needs As Our Greatest Teachers

I see a lot of stressed unhappy people out there. And I wonder, how can we change that? I mean, we all have different battles to fight. And we all have different things that make us happy and sad. The online self-help bookshelves at Amazon have multiple aisles. There are therapists and any drug youContinue reading “Living a Purposeful Life: Our Friends with Special Needs As Our Greatest Teachers”

Emphasis on Happiness

“Ok, Wil, here is your sandwich.” “Thanks, Mom.” “Uh, oh, there is a bite missing! How did that happen?” “Awww, Mom, it was you.” “Me? Huh, no way!” “It was definitely you!” “Definitely” adverb. Without doubt (used for emphasis). Definitely is not a word essential to getting a message across. When kids start speaking, theyContinue reading “Emphasis on Happiness”